What should my consequences be for cheating or disobeying rules?

i have cheated on my bf with4different guys 2guys i hel hands with one guy we had kissed a lot and then other guy i did dtuff w. 3or4 different times.recently i slept w.a guy that was one of my bfs friends i have told my bf what i did shortly after each time the most recent tim of course killed him the most.he is very controllin w.good rzn but he lets the cheatin thing go to easily he has slapped me very hard a few times bc he was so hurt n mad but he gave me many rules like i cant hang w.ne guys after skool if hes not w.me! but i always break those rules bc ima girl thats friends w.mostly guys! and him only gettin a lil mad wen i dnt follow the rules doesnt make me stop...what consequences shuld i get for breakin the rule???